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You’re probably not going to like what I’m about to say, so if you’re very sensitive I suggest you navigate away from this page.
So check this out. Our divorce rate is going at 63% right now. That means that 6 out of 10 married couples are getting divorced within 10 years. 10 years. Kids are born within 10 years, and then they have to deal with the stress of choosing sides– which parent they should live with, and which parent should visit on the weekends.
“Til death do us part” is losing its meaning, and we’re all getting jaded.
But here’s what I’m preaching. There is no one and only. There is no single person out there that was specifically made for you and you ONLY– to fall in love with and make a life with.
Humans are adaptable beings. We can get with anyone! We are also sexual beings, and we make mistakes.
HUMANS ARE NOT MEANT TO SPEND THEIR LIFE WITH ONE PERSON AND ONE PERSON ONLY. WE ARE GENETICALLY ENGINEERED TO FAIL.
But that’s the thing. We’re human. The relationships we make have problems. PLENTY OF THEM.
So on the surface, at face value.. we can’t be faithful.
Which is why there are supposed to be 3 people in a relationship.
You, Them, and God.
The ability to remain faithful and to stay in one relationship is what makes us divine. It is through divinity that “til death” is possible, because death is the only real and true separation from our world and the afterlife.
come on Marj!!
And the reason why relationships are failing, is because they are failing to believe that spirituality and religion play a vital role in their success.
How can you give yourself to someone else when you cannot acknowledge that life has been GIVEN to you?
The truth is.. the one and only is the one through which you can MAKE it work. It’s not about connections, interests, hobbies, social status– although those can lead to it..
This is why we find the oddest couples getting together and making it work. The hot guy with the plain girl, or the plain guy with the hot girl.
The shy and reserved with the loud and outgoing.
We’re talking about something that’s bigger than what’s superficial.
It’s about how much you are willing to give to each other, and to devote to God.
Through love we get forgiveness, patience, understanding, and faithfulness.
It all goes hand in hand..
Because God is love.
Think about it.
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this was amazing, can you send this to me?? i want to blog this [on mine] and give you full credit, its so beautiful to share!! with or without the pictures, doesnt matter.
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